While multiple factors play a role in falling divorce rates, the costs of separation make going it alone a daunting prospect for many Canadians.

  • Kichae@lemmy.ca
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    2 months ago

    It’s not just the affordability factor, either.

    I’ve been with my partner for 8 years now. We’ve owned a home together for 5. She and her ex have yet to get divorced. There’s been no meaningful impetus to drive them to do it: It doesn’t change their relationship any further, it doesn’t change her relationship with me at all, yet it costs a couple thousand bucks.

    Why spend that on lawyers when you could spend it on car repairs, home upgrades, a plethora of takeout meals, or a vacation?

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      2 months ago

      Yikes man, owning a home with someone married to someone else is super dangerous for you.

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        2 months ago

        Not to mention medical situations. Suddenly you have no rights over your long term partners health/life if they are incapacitated.

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        2 months ago

        Both ways. He should live it up for a couple of years. Make sure to use her line of credit and credit cards. His wife’s ex-husband will have to pay half when they finally divorce. Buy a car in her name, sell it, and use the proceeds to buy a car in your name. The possibilities are endless.

        [I am not advocating this obviously. Mostly I am agreeing how super dangerous this is.]

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      2 months ago

      Hey guess who gets your wife’s pension and insurance payouts? Her legal husband.

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        2 months ago

        Hey guess who gets your wife’s pension

        Hahahahaha. What decade are you living in that y’all are getting pensions?

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      2 months ago

      What is wrong with you? This is the worst thing I’ve read on lemmy all day