This!

You get what you put in.

If you made a basic profile and your messages are all “Hi” or “hi, you’re cute”

You’re not getting dates.

If you curate a profile with good content, good photos and send messages that prove that you read their profile you’ll get responses. You’ll never get a message back for every message your send. 10% is a good response rate.

It’s a skill to do all of those things, it’s okay ask for help on those things. Sit down with a trusted friend either a woman that’s of that age, or a man that gets dates from an app.

Then, the next skill is turning messages into meetings IRL.

Then after that is turning dates into a relationship.