• jarfil@beehaw.org
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    10 months ago

    Not really following what’s going on in Italy, what is the rate of males killed by their ex-girlfriends?

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      10 months ago

      Are we counting all the suicides due to the ex girlfriend’s actions, or the ones who die in situations instigated by women, like when she lies about something and the males in her family seek retribution? Those stats seem suspiciously absent from articles like these. Proxy violence is routinely ignored

      If we’re going to advocate against domestic violence, we should include all its forms and not carefully gerrymander the definition

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        10 months ago

        Female suicide, or the jealous ex killing a new partner, are not included either.

        Domestic violence is a complex issue that “should” include, and address, a lot of cases that it currently doesn’t, but for some there is not even an idea on how to start addressing them… so I think it makes sense to tackle the obvious ones first: homicides.

        Once we get that sorted out, with no more people thinking that “their” mate is “theirs” to do what they please with, like they do with “their” kids or “their” dogs, including putting them down whenever they wish… we might be able to get to the next issue.