You said:
Sometimes the software does not reflect the hardware.
If gender is the software and the body is the hardware, this is kind of the “born in the wrong body”-stuff many people still use and it implies that there is a kind of hardware/software combination that fits together and a kind of combination that does not.
“Interessierte”? Wer unbedingt daran “interessiert” ist, das N-Wort zu lesen und rassistische Zeichnungen anzugucken bei dem ist ordentlich was schiefgelaufen