Hi everyone!
I am F21. I have a boyfriend (M20). We are in relationship approximately 1 month (before that we was best friends for 7 or even more years).
We have a lot in common an I really love him (and as I know he too).
We started dating as I accidentally saw my photo on his laptop (I already liked him). After asking him what was that he told me that he liked me for a long time and was afraid to tell me that.
As our personalities - we are typical “otaku” (anime nerds), so we always had hanged out together in the past.
Now everything fine, I really like him, but I am bothered about him being trembling every single time I am close. I know for sure that I am the only one he likes to talk (we are both extremely quiet personalities) and we are together 99% of time. And this happens only if I take his hand or hug him.
I don’t want to ask him about this because I afraid he will get ashamed of this.
Should I worry?
Not sure if I’m being wooshed here.
He might just be overwhelmed with emotion or excitement.
Honestly, that’s something you should be able to talk about.
Peace
Yeah. Give it time. As someone who by pure chance got on a date with someone waaaayyy out of my league and somehow managed to make her stay (20 years as a couple, 15 married, 3 continents and 1 kid later now) I was constantly freaking out about fucking things up, saying something stupid or simply waking up in the first months - and tbh I sometimes still do. (And I was far more experienced and outgoing than you two seem to be).
So from an old fuck: Give it time and enjoy it. It’s normal. And talk about it.
And now you kids get off my lawn!!!