humbletightband@lemmy.dbzer0.com to No Stupid Questions@lemmy.world · edit-28 months agoWhy do people around me tend to increase their responsibility load (i.e. have children, become a manager, do charity, etc.) while I (30M) try to avoid it as much as I can?message-squaremessage-square126fedilinkarrow-up1390arrow-down128
arrow-up1362arrow-down1message-squareWhy do people around me tend to increase their responsibility load (i.e. have children, become a manager, do charity, etc.) while I (30M) try to avoid it as much as I can?humbletightband@lemmy.dbzer0.com to No Stupid Questions@lemmy.world · edit-28 months agomessage-square126fedilink
minus-squaremacrocarpa@lemmy.worldlinkfedilinkarrow-up15arrow-down1·8 months agoIn short, because people have different values and are motivated by different things. Doing something that aligns with your values can be deeply fulfilling! Faith, charity, community, financial independence, respect etc. Note that there isn’t anything objectively right or wrong about this, or the things that people value, it just is. You might value solitude and rest. Head to personalvalu.es for examples of values.
minus-squareTacoNot@mander.xyzlinkfedilinkarrow-up1·8 months agoThank you for the link. That site was really helpful 🙂
In short, because people have different values and are motivated by different things.
Doing something that aligns with your values can be deeply fulfilling! Faith, charity, community, financial independence, respect etc.
Note that there isn’t anything objectively right or wrong about this, or the things that people value, it just is. You might value solitude and rest.
Head to personalvalu.es for examples of values.
Thank you for the link. That site was really helpful 🙂