I feel more attractive and confident in my body when my body hair is well groomed. Doesn’t need to be clear cut but also I don’t want whoever’s going down on me to deal with a jungle.
Even if you’re a fan of hair, I’m sure the concept of “you need a haircut” is valid to you too, I don’t usually mind either way but once had a FWB who did zero trimming and it was… Not ideal.
Almost everyone does a bit of hedge trimming even if they keep the bush
The healthiest way to go about it is to just have a conversation with your partner if its a concern at all. For some, one’s answer could be a deal breaker, and for others it’s not a problem. Communication is key here.
“Nah, your fingernails don’t need a trim. If she can’t handle your adult man’s untrimmed fingernails inside her, she does not deserve to have sex with you.”
Hair that’s long and overgrown can cause problems just like long fingernails can cause problems. Keeping them trimmed so they don’t is just being considerate of your partner.
Long fingernails digging inside a vaginal canal are not the same thing as a woman letting her genital hair grow to its natural length… one will cause pain and bleeding and possible infections. Other is maybe you’ll get it in your mouth sometimes…
Nah, your genitalia doesn’t need a haircut. If he can’t handle your adult woman’s genital hair, he does not deserve to have sex with you.
If you don’t want to trim, then don’t.
I feel more attractive and confident in my body when my body hair is well groomed. Doesn’t need to be clear cut but also I don’t want whoever’s going down on me to deal with a jungle.
You don’t need to go down to the hardwood, but you should still trim your shit.
Unless that’s what you’re into, then you do you.
You’ll notice he’s not the one saying this, she is.
Some people just feel more attractive when they are cleaned up down there.
And before you go off about how it’s the patriarchy, etc, I’m one of those people and I’m a dude.
Ah I’ve worked it out.
I think the hair lover is French.
Case closed.
What can you expect from a casual snail enjoyer and frosh leg lover
How about people just do what they feel comfortable doing with their own body hair?
Are you the sex police? Gonna arrest people for trying to please their partners?
Not to be confused with The Sexy Police:
“You’re under arrest! Now check out these buns!”
People can only like what I like. Any deviations will be prosecuted to the first extent of my law.
I’m just gonna throw out there that I’m a fan of hair, but it ain’t mine to judge or control. People need to chill out a bit lol
Even if you’re a fan of hair, I’m sure the concept of “you need a haircut” is valid to you too, I don’t usually mind either way but once had a FWB who did zero trimming and it was… Not ideal.
Almost everyone does a bit of hedge trimming even if they keep the bush
The healthiest way to go about it is to just have a conversation with your partner if its a concern at all. For some, one’s answer could be a deal breaker, and for others it’s not a problem. Communication is key here.
Wow, you have some issues you need to work through.
I take it you’re part of the “if he likes it shaved he’s a pedophile” crowd huh?
I bet you thought you were so woke for this.
Anybody that says this doesn’t eat out enough. Licking hair suuuucks.
tbh I never mind taking a moment to find the treasure through the forest, but to each their own
You don’t need to lick the hair. Part the hair then get in there. #lifehack
I mean, you still get the stray pube that ends up in the mouth, but that’s part of the game.
Their comment is at -69. He 69’s at a negative value.
“Nah, your fingernails don’t need a trim. If she can’t handle your adult man’s untrimmed fingernails inside her, she does not deserve to have sex with you.”
Hair that’s long and overgrown can cause problems just like long fingernails can cause problems. Keeping them trimmed so they don’t is just being considerate of your partner.
Long fingernails digging inside a vaginal canal are not the same thing as a woman letting her genital hair grow to its natural length… one will cause pain and bleeding and possible infections. Other is maybe you’ll get it in your mouth sometimes…
It can cause a rash through friction
You’re more likely to get friction from stubble than grown and trim hair.
I’ve rarely seen anyone on Lemmy get nuked this hard for a bad take. I’m in awe.
They have two downvotes and you’re the only reply that I can see.
I was referring to the parent comment. Sorry for the ambiguity
Makes sense.
We’re gatekeeping hygiene now?
You name a gate, the internet is keeping it
Right, unfunny at best. Natural is better anyway
I’d bet 10 bucks you’re gross as fuck