• PerogiBoi@lemmy.ca
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    11 months ago

    Are people not allowed to find others attractive after they’re married or something? What is this sentiment?

    • ickplant@lemmy.worldOP
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      11 months ago

      It’s more of a shitpost than a sentiment. My husband and I talk about other attractive people all the time.

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      11 months ago

      Are people not allowed to find others attractive after they’re married or something?

      There’s a general taboo against oogling. But its often a question of finesse. Doing a loud wolf-whistle at someone as she passes you is bad form, and doubly so if your wife isn’t wolf-whistling with you.

    • EmasXP@lemmy.world
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      11 months ago

      We all have different levels of insecurity. I think it’s common to not want to hurt the feelings of the ones we love