Measuring cup is still a cup 💁♂️🥤
Two, in fact!
My strategy (especially since I got married) is to just have a single plate and a single bowl. These get washed/rinsed whenever I want to put food in them (I do discard visible waste after a meal). It’s helped me both in terms of not having a pile of dishes that scares me and in terms of not getting stuck in analysis paralysis if all the dishes are dirty and I’m hungry. I actually have a visually distinct plate I use and try my best to never use a different plate to eat. I’d recommend giving it a try.
I’ve been trying to get my SO to agree to getting rid of all the plates and cups except for what we use hasn’t worked yet I should just go solo and take your recommendation it’s a good recommendation
I’m in the same situation - we have a lot of dishes in our house and my partner can manage with multiple dishes… so I have my chosen dishes and then we have a pool of dishes for them to use - they’ve actually struggled with this same issue (they’re not diagnosed but might be ADHD) so while they use a rotation of plates and bowls they have adopted “the chosen coffee mug” to keep from getting overwhelmed by piles of mugs on random surfaces in their office.
My wife and I moved recently. We don’t have a dishwasher at the moment so we chose to have 4 sets of dishes unpacked total so we can make sure to keep up on dishes. 2 meals each uses all the dishes, so we’re forced to clean them daily.
What do you mean? It looks pretty great having a bowl with a handle. Might even be an upgrade to usual
Plus Oxo… that’s fancy. They’re eating like royalty!
I thought the same thing. I never knew I wanted my bowls to have handles until just now!
This, in my mind, is a scientific endeavor; you can monitor your cereal/milk intake in milliliters per minute, and I think that’s important to know.
Ok, so, what has been working for me is keep the dishwasher open and racks out. Then, as I use a dish, rinse it and put it in the dishwasher. When it gets full, turn it on. The only thing I haven’t solved is putting the dishes up when it’s done.
Yeah, loading and running is not my problem either.
Same with folding laundry.
Uh… that’s been me. With Special K, Red Berries no less. I’m not too proud to admit it.
Yup. I filled it back up with a bunch more freeze dried strawberries and bananas when this was empty and had another “bowl”. Wouldn’t want to waste a clean dish.
Is r/twoxchromosome the antithesis of this sub. I feel like all the spouses behavior they complain about is the standard post here
I couldn’t tell you. The adhdwomen community is where my people are.
That is just a man hating sub in general.
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Good cereal choice though.
Delicious. I was feeling fancy and added extra freeze dried strawberries and bananas to another “bowl” after this one.
You’d think so… but somehow no.
I’m glad to have a dish washer again after years of living with a broken one. EZPZ to just put the dirty dishes in and turn it on when full.
Hell yeah. I’ll have my own kitchen and dishwasher again in a couple months for the first time in a couple years.
I once bought new pants instead of having to do laundry
Completely justifiable if you ask me.
Our dishwasher leaks and we dont have the money to fix or replace it. So its all manual washing dishes… when the last bowl, plate and utensil is gone.
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That point is when you buy a dishwasher, then you can just pull a clean dish out of the dishwater 😅
I honestly feel like having a dishwasher is a trap for ADHD people. It makes sense if you’re having a party or some dish-involving-event but otherwise you’re taking a small task (wash one dish) and turning it into a large task that requires constant overhead in monitoring:
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Make sure you start the dishwasher when it’s full
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Make sure you realize when the dishwasher is full.
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Have a multi-minute bulk task of removing and putting away every plate in your house.
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Did you put the soap in the dishwasher?
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If, for some reason, you used every spoon in existence but otherwise the dishwasher isn’t very full - start the dishwasher.
Also, all this is happening behind an opaque door (I’ve never seen a glass fronted dishwasher, at least) so…
- Open the dishwasher, does it contain dishes? Are they clean? Empty the dishwasher.
I find the opposite as an ADHD sufferer. When I use a dish, it goes in the dishwasher. If it’s full, I run it. If it’s clean, I empty it before I put the dirty dish in which takes all of 2 minutes. It basically forces the routine, and I end up running it almost every night and emptying it while I make my morning coffee.
Whereas with hand washing I end up building a pile in the sink and procrastinate until it gets big enough to take half an hour to get through.
Nah. Dishwashers use about three gallons for a single wash. Im saving water when i run it with more than four dishes in it. That happens every other night.
I just start it when I try to put a dish in and it ends up in a janky position, or when I have to get a dirty dish out and clean it. I empty it one dish at a time or when I run out of bench space due to the dirty dishes on the bench 😅
If I don’t have a dishwasher I just end up buying take away once all the dishes are dirty…
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It’s not gonna cure you or anything but something I did was only kept out two of every plate, bowl and utensil. I put the rest away in a place that would take more time to take out than to clean. As I got more into the habit of cleaning the dishes by necessity I would add one more set. Now I have the full set and though I still struggle I am much better at getting my dishes cleaned.
