• TotallynotJessica@lemmy.world
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      20 days ago

      Men are hot, but I’m more pessimistic about finding a guy I’d want a relationship with than finding a girl. As a transfem, I’d have an easier time finding a guy, but a majority would probably be abusive or chasers. There might be fewer women, but it’d be safer(women are more likely to be progressive) and they’d be more into me as a person. It’d be harder to hookup, but easier to find a gf than bf.

      Even transmascs would be better than cis dudes because they’re almost certainly not bigoted chasers that were raised to see women as goals instead of people.

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      19 days ago

      As a bisexual guy, this is not at all my experience with non-straight men. They seem to be mostly cool and well socialized.