I believe this is one of those scenarios where the only way to be certain is to fuck around and find out.

Experience as is having sex with a prostitute? If so, that’s a no.

I have, however, spent time with strippers, hookers, escorts (which is like a hooker but more expensive), phone sex performers, one porn actress and her porn actor boyfriend, and an ex-pimp.

Back in the day, I moved to a city for a while. Worked as a bouncer for two different guys that owned multiple places, including strip clubs (and gay clubs/bars, plus a sports bar). So I knew a lot of strippers, including a couple that hooked/escorted on the side. That ended up with me meeting other prostitutes and escorts.

The phone sex workers were similar. Had a friend that did it during college, and met some of his coworkers.

The porn actors I met at a party semi randomly. Ended up being friends with them for a few years before they moved to Colorado. The ex pimp was a patient.

Anyway, I don’t personally have an issue with sex work, or the customers using the services. If you decide to, make sure you use a condom, treat them well, and pay up without complaint or negotiating price. Yeah, you can usually get a lower price, but they’re taking a stange cock and a ton of risk, so just pay what they ask. Make sure you’re up front about what you want, and don’t try and switch things up during the service.

Seriously, be decent to people, no matter what, but the street level sex workers get treated like shit way too often, so be on your best behavior, okay? Use your manners, unless you make an agreement otherwise. This is another human being.

I imagine that you’re sitting at home by your computer, minding your business and following various rabbit holes on the internet until you hear tapping on the window right next to you. “WTF” you think as you turn around to see what’s going on.

You look out the window, perplexed, unable to form complete sentences as you gaze upon a stray sex worker, cold and wet (from the rain, obviously). Will you invite her in and offer her a towel? Do you feed her? What do you tell your significant other? “Hey, I rescued this stray sex worker. She can stay with us for a while, right?”

Go to a proper place if you can afford it and if your country allows anything like brothels.
I would not recommend letting your penis take the lead and make you make an impulsive decision.
Decide later if you want to, sleep on it. If you decide to do it, find a place where the women are treated well and in accordance with human rights. And where they are clean. Preferably not next door.

When I arranged the only meeting I’ve ever had with a sex worker she was very kind, put me at ease and it felt great. But it was just a slightly better version of whacking it. As soon as you cum, it’s straight back to reality. If that’s all you’re after, I say go for it. Be safe though!

But the experience pales in comparison to the fun you can have with a “real” partner. Whether it’s in a relationship or a one night stand, there’s an emotional connection caused by the mutual attraction. As Motörhead said “The Chase Is Better Than the Catch”.

They brought business into the bar but didn’t source business there, always made sure to have the Johns leave a good tip, and were model patrons. As a bartender, I respected and appreciated that, one service professional to another.

Depending on where you’re at, Tryst . link will be a good resource, there are some folks who specialize in helping out people who are struggling with loneliness or mental health problems associated with sex, and there’s also folks who specialize in just being good for people who don’t feel confident they know what they’re doing, everyone I’ve met has genuinely also been a cool person to get to know.

If they ask for ID when initially contacting them, that’s actually a positive sign, sting operators will usually skip straight to trying aggressively to get you to outright say you are offering to pay for sex to use as evidence to prosecute you, if they’re taking their time to know if they can trust you before they even begin talking about setting a date, they’re most likely trustworthy.

Also, a lot of them will have way reduced rates for normal outing style dates if you wanna get to know them before you feel comfortable really getting to know them. If their adverts talk about also being a healer or some spiritual feelings towards their work, good sign. Not because they’re more likely to be legit, just because that means you’re gonna get someone who when you’re ready for it is probably gonna get feelings out of you that you didn’t even know you were capable of.

You’ll also be able to look for not escort sex workers too if you just want a massage or for someone to tie you up and spank you for a bit.

I hired an escort about a week after getting broken up with by my ex of 7 years. This was a few years ago. Great experience, would do again next time I get dumped.

You’d better ask her if she’s a cop. Wouldn’t want the internet to find out you have a fetish for the pigs.

Get ready for the next battle

I’ve had a few meetings off tryst, one off twitter. Pretty decent way to bang someone who is ridiculously out of your league, but it doesn’t impart anything lasting. You’ll need to give your ID in most cases, and like everything else inflation has hit it hard.

Also, just like Tinder, do not expect the pictures to match reality exactly. In fact, with money involved this is probably more the rule than the exception.

Look intently for an adam’s apple.